Empowerment through pleasure, not sacrifice.
You’ve built the life. Checked the boxes. Everything looks successful.
But you’re exhausted.
Always holding it together. Always managing. Always one dropped plate away from overwhelm.
Maybe you’re burnt out. A recovering perfectionist.
Maybe you’ve asked yourself, “is this all there is?” like I did.
If you’re ready to feel grounded, connected, and deeply empowered, you’re in the right place.
How we can work together
Coaching
Online 1:1 and couples coaching for high-functioning individuals who are ready to stop white-knuckling their relationships and start telling the truth about what they want—in and out of the bedroom
Retreats
Personalized, clinically designed retreats that blend deep coaching, sensual and somatic practices, and curated cultural experiences so you can step out of the roles that are suffocating you and back into yourself.
Books & Resources
Science-backed frameworks, personal stories and practical tools—including Opened and Not Tonight, Honey—to help you understand why you feel the way you do and what to actually do about it.
Not Sure Where to Start?
One-off Support Call (Triage)
A private, judgment-free session where we focus entirely on you.
This is not therapy and not coaching with the pressure to perform or "fix" yourself. Rather, it’s a supportive, intentional conversation that helps you slow down and regulate your nervous system while deciding the next step.
Why work with me instead of just reading another relationship book?
I don’t promise easy answers. I promise honest questions, real tools, and someone who’s walked this path before you.
Clinical expertise
I’m a therapist-turned coach with dual Master’s degrees in Human Sexuality and Mental Health Counseling—not just someone who likes talking about relationships.
Lived experience
I’ve been where you are: performing perfection, feeling lost and suffocated by other people’s expectations. I reconnected with myself and created a life and love that fuels me, and I want to help you do the same.
My experience is not your experience
I work with monogamous, curious, and non-monogamous clients alike—my priority is your truth, not fitting you into a box.
No judgment
My retreats and coaching aren’t about fixing you; they’re about helping you finally stop betraying yourself.
Reviews for Courtney Boyer
“She handled my personal issues with compassion and without judgement. The lessons she helped me learn about myself and the tactics she's helped me employ every day have changed the way I lead my life and I don't know what I'd do without her.”
-Liz C.
“Thank you so much for believing in me and waiting for me to see my worth. It's more than your job it's a calling and I am glad every day that you answered it. I pray every night for God to lift your burdens and to restore you every night. Thank you will never be enough but I am looking forward to writing multiple testimonies of how I continued to reap from these tools.”
-Lisa B.
“Do it! You won't regret it...You'll feel different soon as you book with her because you made the first step and now you'll have support to guide you the rest of the way. She is funny and a good listener. She is down to Earth and lets her imperfectness be seen; this made me feel comfortable to be myself and unjudged. She doesn't cut you off in the middle of the session due to time. She lets sessions be consumer led, giving you the reigns. I personally needed that.
-Shania C.